Motivational Nuggets with Christian Collins

As a result of inclement weather, I haven't gone into my office as often as I usually do, and someone said, "It must be nice." In reply, I said, "Yes!" It's rather lovely, and it made me consider the two kinds of individuals. There are individuals who know your journey, your sacrifice, your work ethic, your persistence, and your desires. These people will cheer you on and acknowledge your accomplishments. They will be truly delighted for you. Then again, there are others who are oblivious and just witness the gifts' outward expression. They observe the sparkle and glamor. However, they are not privy to your behind-the-scenes tale. Today, I want to encourage those of you who are subjecting to unfair judgment to never strive to lessen or reduce your light in order to make other people more comfortable. When hard work pays off, it means that you were disciplined, sacrificed, and denied yourself. Give God great thanks and praise. Reaping what you have sowed...

 When I was younger, I didn't realize how unique my life was from those of my friends. I became conscious of trauma, disappointments, flaws, etc. as I got older. I initially believed that if I made the world aware of how differently I was reared, I would be released from the pressure to live and become. I was wrong! Let's face it, despite the desire for empathy, no one is exempt from having to "play their hand". We must all play the cards that are given to us the best we can. Meaning that, maturity is having a growth mentality and being determined to use the tools that are available to you to overcome life's obstacles. It also means having guts and perseverance. No, not every hand is cut the same. No, it's not fair. Undoubtedly, many deserved better. What now? We have two options: we can choose to be imprisoned by our past and the consequences of our unwillingness to adjust, or we can decide to change how our story ends.